Deborah McSmith
My son Brendon Sarr McSmith died on July 8th of this year. He was a Navy Special Amphibious Reconnaissance Corpsman assigned to a team of Marine Raiders, with whom he served in Iraq.
Brendon had a small IRA balance with Merrill Lynch. Since July I have attempted to work with ML's Life Services Department to have this balance transferred to my Navy Federal Credit Union account. During this time I have successfully resolved financial transactions with the credit union, his bank, his mortgage company, the IRS, and the Virginia DMV using the only personal property probate form the State of Virginia provides when someone dies without a legal will in place.
Whatever legal team advises Merrill's Life Services Department, however, has repeatedly refused the form and each time has given entirely…